The more we push forward, the more we will be pushed back, because impulse is such a strong driving force without wisdom". I found something exciting and beautiful a few days ago. I thought it met my purpose and therefore, I made every effort possible to save it. Given the fact that this isn't the first time, I tried much harder than ever to save. Did I curse my fate or my bad luck? I don't know. I just felt bad. Simple and plain bad. I went on and then wanted to somehow recuperate.
I looked for perfect happiness. I looked for perfect world. I carried a huge zoom lens to find and dig happiness out from somewhere.
Every single day, I get to read articles about how stupid men are and how stupid women are everywhere. If women are associated with their vanity and stupidity …Men are associated with commitment phobia.
I asked my friend, she said her boyfriend had commitment issues. I wonder why people don't want to get married. I hear about such stereotypical behaviors often. Is this a psychological problem? I wish I can find a potion. The complications of relationships are not easy to deal with it. They exist. They exist all the time.
Analysis phase: Found some gutless species-Common Syndrome
Marriage and creativity have no connection. People who complain and look for excuses will remain complainers who can never achieve their dreams. Because, the very-strong rooted attitude of being disloyal will come into the picture even in their respective careers someday. If you accept what you like with a pinch of salt at least there is a guarantee of being with someone you like. Then why do some people live under false impressions about life. Why do they look for perfect happiness? I thought marriage is about living with a good person to whom I am completely attracted. Spending meaningful life with a good friend was more important... Will the thirst for perfect happiness ever be quenched?
Struck by Realization : Eureka!
I went further in my research...in the end… There is no perfection and there are no tips. As funny and lame as it sounds. There are none! At the end of the day... & Finally we are all lonely somehow. Life in itself is depressing and we make it more depressing by fetching for things we don’t have. We are born alone and we die alone. At least if you spend a meaningful and not waste years by surrounding ourselves to our weaknesses especially involving in many relationships over and again…making our life a big mess. I discovered a meaningful life in the way my parents spent. They married early in their twenties and realized each other more as years passed by. They didn’t miss on life’s happiness by having kids at the right time of life. We are not here forever!
How do you know that he or she is the one? I feel that in any relationship if you are yourself and you do not lose yourself. It is a good indication that you are with the right person. This could be a deciding tool to find the right one. This way of retaining your self guarantees happiness and enjoying every moment. If you lose yourself then it’s definitely not a perfect relationship and pursuing such a relationship is a waste of time.
Finally...
These were my thoughts in finding the right love potion. Although, I am a novice to this highly debatable subject without a shame/self conscious ...conscientiously decided to write my thoughts down(I was trying to fit in conscientious word somewhere :-) ) Wishing myself a good luck. I end this whole conversation of attaining perfection (that too in love...! I sure have a gumption to do that) :-)
I looked for perfect happiness. I looked for perfect world. I carried a huge zoom lens to find and dig happiness out from somewhere.
Every single day, I get to read articles about how stupid men are and how stupid women are everywhere. If women are associated with their vanity and stupidity …Men are associated with commitment phobia.
I asked my friend, she said her boyfriend had commitment issues. I wonder why people don't want to get married. I hear about such stereotypical behaviors often. Is this a psychological problem? I wish I can find a potion. The complications of relationships are not easy to deal with it. They exist. They exist all the time.
Analysis phase: Found some gutless species-Common Syndrome
Marriage and creativity have no connection. People who complain and look for excuses will remain complainers who can never achieve their dreams. Because, the very-strong rooted attitude of being disloyal will come into the picture even in their respective careers someday. If you accept what you like with a pinch of salt at least there is a guarantee of being with someone you like. Then why do some people live under false impressions about life. Why do they look for perfect happiness? I thought marriage is about living with a good person to whom I am completely attracted. Spending meaningful life with a good friend was more important... Will the thirst for perfect happiness ever be quenched?
Struck by Realization : Eureka!
I went further in my research...in the end… There is no perfection and there are no tips. As funny and lame as it sounds. There are none! At the end of the day... & Finally we are all lonely somehow. Life in itself is depressing and we make it more depressing by fetching for things we don’t have. We are born alone and we die alone. At least if you spend a meaningful and not waste years by surrounding ourselves to our weaknesses especially involving in many relationships over and again…making our life a big mess. I discovered a meaningful life in the way my parents spent. They married early in their twenties and realized each other more as years passed by. They didn’t miss on life’s happiness by having kids at the right time of life. We are not here forever!
How do you know that he or she is the one? I feel that in any relationship if you are yourself and you do not lose yourself. It is a good indication that you are with the right person. This could be a deciding tool to find the right one. This way of retaining your self guarantees happiness and enjoying every moment. If you lose yourself then it’s definitely not a perfect relationship and pursuing such a relationship is a waste of time.
Finally...
These were my thoughts in finding the right love potion. Although, I am a novice to this highly debatable subject without a shame/self conscious ...conscientiously decided to write my thoughts down(I was trying to fit in conscientious word somewhere :-) ) Wishing myself a good luck. I end this whole conversation of attaining perfection (that too in love...! I sure have a gumption to do that) :-)
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Oops......! Should I say thanks? Knowing that this comment is from someone I know for sure:) Thank You...Can't believe it made sense to someone ...lol
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